This mother of two, who describes herself as a ‘vintage mum’ , works on the Web and loves designing, reading and cooking.
She admits that sometimes she gets lost, but always finds her way back, probably because she is such a practical person, as you can tell by her advice. It’s all for you – make it work for you
1. Do not underestimate: Yourself when you think about labour and birth. It will naturally bring out the best in you.
2. Do not overestimate: The accuracy of your due date! You could be one or two weeks early or late, so try not to pack your hospital bag and prepare the baby’s room between contractions. If you are overdue, be patient, smile and wait!
3. If you need help: Say so! Do not deny it – we have all been through it and we can all help. Speak to your neighbour, the shop-assistant, another new mum you have not spoken to for some time…
4. You won’t manage without: A good stroller you and your baby can explore the world with.
5. My motto for when you are desperate: “Relax and enjoy your child… Your baby was born to be a reasonable, friendly – though occasionally demanding – human being,” said Benjamin Spock. He also said we should not be afraid to love them and enjoy them – babies need smiles, words, games and cuddles as much as they need vitamins and calories.
